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			<title><![CDATA[ Our T's way of helping us :s ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18516/t/Our-T-s-way-of-helping-us-s.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Well... Ok today we had a very long day, our T really confused us all. Today Freddy took us for the first time for a chat and to see if we really have DID (of
which i&#39;m pretty sure it is) and we waited a while. After an hour of waiting (No problem with that because we got there very early) we got to meet her.
Freddy was speaking with her, they were both talking about why he thought he has DID. He didn&#39;t mention us, just the symptoms. Everything was going pretty
well, like I said, and... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:29:57 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ so scared ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Today I finally managed to talk to T. He is ending therapy at the end of the month. I have seen him since I was 15years old. I am so scared that I won&#39;t
have anyone. In the past 3 weeks things have got really bad and I am afriad that things will get worse. I still have to work with him everyday. I have only
been working a few hours a day then I have to go home &quot;sick&quot;, becuase I can&#39;t stop crying when I see or hear T. I ended up in hospital early
today needing stitches and I... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 15:01:07 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ A particularly disconcerting therapy session. ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ My wife was elated to talk with a protector she never knew about and who didn&#39;t want to go to therapy and was making it quite difficult for everyone. After
having her agree to a new name, the alters seem to go quiet. But she discovered in her next session to her suprise one voice. One cursing her and yelling at
her to not speak. When the therapist tried to speak to anyone, she yelled inside at them to not speak. It was extremely difficult for her. My wife was in tears
because her... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:19:27 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ coping but still stressed ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Not wanting to seem like an $%$ I decided not to say anything to our roommate about the power bill until it was due. Last month I kept on him as the due date
got close asking him every couple of days if he had paid it and finally he did. This time I just decided to hold off and see if he would pay it on his own.
Today it&#39;s due and I just called the power company, his half has yet to be paid. The bill itself disappeared a few days ago (maybe because it has the
account number on it and you... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 11:27:20 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Nightmare? (possible MT don't know) ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18501/t/Nightmare-possible-MT-don-t-know-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I don&#39;t usually remember anything I dream, especially the nightmares, usually it&#39;s just my wife waking me up because I&#39;m whining or whimpering or
worse. But last night I had one that I do remember it was the strangest thing I&#39;ve ever dreamed and it stayed with me.
<br>
<br>
MT just in case
<br>
<br>
It started out with my mother (it was like watching a tv show, she was Roseann and my aunt was her sister) but they were entering this dungeon (again really
wierd. Anyways my... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 09:26:18 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Part II, The Princess and the Wanderer ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18500/t/Part-II-The-Princess-and-the-Wanderer.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ (Although we had yet to meet in person, or even swap pics, I knew she was to be my soul mate.  I wrote the rest in hopes she&#39;d see my intentions, but in a
form which she could withdraw from a further relationship without embarrassment and pretend it was just a story.)     
<br>
<br>
One day, not unlike any other, a wanderer appeared in the distance, suddenly stepping out from amongst the trees.  He did not look frightful, but for the
darkened veil covering his face.  She was at first shy,... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:44:35 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ The Princess and the Wanderer ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ (My soon to be bride had recently been in H for some SH issues, and we had  only met online at the time.  I wrote this to provide hope.  It worked.)
<br>
<br>
Once upon a time there lived a beautiful princess, who dwelt safely behind a massive fortress which she had built herself, stone upon stone.  She did not
realize of course that she was beautiful or a princess, seeing as she had lived her entire life in isolation except for the dreadful dragon which she kept
locked up in her deepest... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Question to members from Social Work Student ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hello! I am currently getting my Master&#39;s in Social Work and am currently in a class on the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manuel written by the American
Psychiatric Association). The culmination of the semester is a paper over a particular diagnosis found in the DSM. My paper is on Dissociative Identity
Disorder. I am extremely interested in DID in regards to the etiology, why some people develop DID while other&#39;s do not, treatment, and educating the
general public about DID. I was... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 16:25:06 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ I'll finally get my own T. Need tips ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18494/t/I-ll-finally-get-my-own-T-Need-tips.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Well, desiding was hard for me and Freddy, I&#39;ve always wanted to have a T to be a bit more relaxed about taking good care of all of us, just that Freddy
never did like the idea and neither did the other two walls. But after writing a lot, we&#39;ve desided we need this and it&#39;ll be a secret from everybody
and I&#39;m OK with that. But he&#39;s been nervious and gave me some good questions. Searching for some good answers, I wanted to ask people with experience.
<br>
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Many of you... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ the gender question ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ our sleep med has us a bit out of it right now but hasn&#39;t sent us to bed yet. After trying to start an account on Youtube I was asked what my gender was
and I had no clue. I said female as most of us are female but some are not and the body is not and it;s rather confusing. Its such a simple question but one we
cant answer without much thought.
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<br>
Piper
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			<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 23:07:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Feeling abandoned ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18471/t/Feeling-abandoned.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ We  feeling so alone and unwanted. The one person we thought we could count on (my T), cancelled therapy today without giving me any warning and didn&#39;t
seem like he cared &quot;he had so much work to do and had to get a report out by the end of the day&quot;. We work in the same office as him (I know major
Conflict of interest) so he thinks he can just pass us  off like a bag of potatoes. Last week he was working out of the office for most of the week, but said
he would talk to me at the... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ How To Start T-might trigger ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18468/t/How-To-Start-T-might-trigger.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I have been doing a lot of thinking lately as I am waiting for this new T to call me once she gets settled into her new office.  In the past I have always
dumped and pumped during the first session-I want to see how fast they will run away from me, but also I don&#39;t want to waste my time on someone who is
going to run within a few weeks.  I am asking myself if this is a good strategy or is it the parts trying to scare the T to make her run.  I don&#39;t know. 
Maybe it&#39;s both.  I... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 07:29:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Back from T ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18465/t/Back-from-T.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I thought this deserved it&#39;s own post because so much happened today I really don&#39;t even know if it&#39;d be appropriate to put as an addition to the
last post... so here it goes.
<br>
<br>
<br>
First off, I gave her the letter, she read two pages and instantly asked me about going SMI status (serious mental illness) as it would make me elligable for
disability and make it to where if I lost my insurance I&#39;d still get therapy and my meds regardless and it&#39;d be paid by the... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:16:43 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ T today... Nervous ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18463/t/T-today-Nervous.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I have this letter to give her but I&#39;m now really second guessing doing so... I&#39;m terrified to do so, I&#39;m afraid of what she might say or think of
me. Oh boy this is freaking me out. I&#39;m nervous as hell and not sure if I should give it to her or not, I&#39;m not sure what to do. I&#39;m just very
nervous. I have therapy in 2 hours and am really struggling with myself about giving it to her. It&#39;s like a battle inside I can&#39;t stop. well I&#39;ll
let you know how it goes... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 08:48:07 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ down ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18461/t/down.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ i got a lot going on and a young friend just died - couldn&#39;t go to the funeral cause of all the people there i didn&#39;t know- so I didn&#39;t feel safe.
<br>
Also there is other stuff going on in 3D world right now makes it really tough and triggers things that I can&#39;t pretend aren&#39;t there anymore
<br>
the more I discover about myself, the more I realise how impaired i am in 3D world ... not that most people would know, somehow I have hidden it and appear
high functioning but... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:40:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Saw back surgeon today (MT) ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18452/t/Saw-back-surgeon-today-MT-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ (MT).... Well I saw the back surgeon today and he said that pretty either way things go I need back surgery and that he thinks that there is probably a
fracture in my L-5 vertebra and said it&#39;s probably an old high school gymnastics/sports injury or an injury from a car accident.
<br>
<br>
Thing is, I&#39;ve never been in sports as my parents couldn&#39;t afford it (and even if they could they wouldn&#39;t have put me in any because they
wouldn&#39;t even let me go to school... I got home... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 10:53:37 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ protector and now persecuting ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18436/t/protector-and-now-persecuting.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;ve read a little about protectors and I wondered if anyone had input on the topic of those that become persecutors.  I think that means they persecute
the host somehow.  There is probably self-destructive behavior for them to be this type of alter.  I haven&#39;t posted much outside the SO forum and hope its
okay.  I&#39;m a little fearful of this topic, but I thought I&#39;d give it a try.  My wife seems to have one that is trying to self-destruct her therapy. 
She wants it.  The... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 10:35:45 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Codependent Roommate ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18428/t/Codependent-Roommate.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;m really becoming conflicted concerning my roommate.  She expects me to prepare all the meals, with never a thank you, and berates me if the toilet
isn&#39;t spotless yet doesn&#39;t acknowledge my efforts in any way.  She&#39;s also been imbibing the herb fairly regularly, but when I try to confront her
she just stumbles around, gets a glazed look and passes out.  She doesn&#39;t hold a steady job, but does occasionally bring me inappropriate gifts.  Even then
she just acts smug if I... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 15:06:20 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Targetted. ]]></title>
			<link>http://copingwithdissociativeidentitydisorder.yuku.com/topic/18415/t/Targetted-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Someone is definitely targeting us, first our truck gets stolen (which we got a description of who did it from a neighbor who saw 3 women near our truck and
they matched the description of some old neighbors) then our router got hacked tonight and it&#39;s tkip encrypted and password protected with a very odd
password. (Not easily force brutable) Ironically the old neighbors new that password because we let them bum off of our internet for a while. This is more than
a coincidence (which I... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 23:01:36 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ some questions ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi Friends. It&#39;s been a while since I&#39;ve posted, but I&#39;m wondering if some of you could provide some feedback. First of all, I&#39;ve made a
change. I&#39;ve decided last week to view the voices I hear as coming from my mind (a personal experience) rather than from supernatural/guiding beings. This
has been helpful so far, in that it&#39;s no longer me vs. them, but me working with other parts of myself. No longer anger and helplessness, but hopefully
more compassion and... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 16:06:59 GMT</pubDate>
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